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How can you find your way through the good dreams and bad dreams you
meet while you sleep? What can you do to move on from anxiety dreams
and nightmares? How can you open up the possible wonders of dreaming?
Research and human experience over many years have shown ways we can
work with the wonder of our dream process. From such research Dr.
Nielsen and Levin suggest that dreaming attempts to create 'fear
extinction' to deal with painful or fearful past experience. The dream
process succeeds at this when we do not wake from a
fearful dream. When we wake from a nightmarish dream it has failed. As
Dr. Nielsen points out, 'If you feel yourself falling spread your arms
and learn how to fly'.
This is not a crazy suggestion. Dreams are simply feelings put into
images. Nothing can actually hurt you while you dream. If you really
take that in and decide to confront your dream fears - don't confuse
this with externally dangerous things - you can transform your inner
world of anxieties, heal past hurts, and open up the treasure house of
your potential. When this happens it flows into confidence and
pleasure in daily life. The steps to doing this are:
- While awake and relaxed imagine yourself back in the dream and
continue it as fantasy or a daydream and move it toward
satisfaction. Alter the dream in any way; experiment with it; play
with it, until you find a way to fully feel at ease with it. In
doing this you must not ignore the feelings of resistance and
spontaneous emotion and fantasy that may occur. Satisfaction comes
only when you have found a way of integrating these into your
conscious imagining.
- Recognise that every part of your dream is an expression of some
aspect of yourself such as sexuality, creativity, ideas, fear, and
so on. So even the monsters of your dreams are part of you. If you
run from them you are actually afraid of yourself, of your own
emotions and memories. So, in this step, you gradually meet, change,
and even imaginatively become the fearful image. In that way you
transform your anxiety into available energy. You overcome your
fears.
- Your dreams are a unique area of self expression. They are a safe
area to experiment and experience things in any way you wish. Often
we introvert, or take into our dream life, rules and fears that have
no place there. For example, while dreaming, you may fall into the
sea and be terrified you will drown. But that is impossible because
you are only experiencing images of your feelings and thoughts. All
you can do is to feel fear. You can easily breathe under water in a
dream, or fly, or die and be re-born. So remove such limitations
from your inner life by visualising such changes into your dreams
when awake.
- Recent research into how the brain works shows that it creates an
interpretation of what you take to be a real external world. We each
create our own internal reality in that way. Take time to wonder
what reality you have created unconsciously and what your dreams
portray of it. In doing so remember that any evil, any good, any
demon or any god that you meet in your dreams, is any expression of
your own potential to create. So what world do you want to live in?
One dominated by internal fears and demons? A life restricted and
imprisoned by old habits and rigid rules of right and wrong? What
about moving toward one that allows you to love and unfold your
potential?
See: Magical
Dream Machine; Levels of
Awareness in Waking and Dreaming ; Lucidity
- Awake in Sleep; The Waking
Lucid Dream. |